Police: 3 Dead In Pataskala Double-Murder-Suicide

This man turned out to be nothing more than a murderer worthy of judgement.

Please do not judge anyone who reacts this way or someone who has gone through this.  I did this summer with my youngest stepson and his mother.  There are no rational reasons to explain why.  That is the hardest part of these situations.  You can say what you would or wouldn’t do but no one knows what causes these irrational acts!  You could literally worry yourself to death trying to figure out why.  It is so easy to judge because it will never happen in my family, well you never really never know. 

There is NO WAY you can begin to understand because it is an irrational act.  A permanent solution to a short term problem, but only if you are thinking rationally.

Positive thoughts and prayers should be the only thing we as a community should be doing for the survivors who right now are in shock and waiting to wake up from this terrible nightmare.

My heart, love and prayers go out to all of the surviving family as you are dealing with this tragedy.  I am still going through the greif process but not every day is bad.

Okay…..I guess I’ll type it slowly for the rest of you this time…..I believe I already said it, but I’ll say it again.

I said plain and clearly in common english that I didn’t know the particulars on this case…..I DID say, that I figured this case wasn’t too far from the norm of what is going on in society, and then I stated based on that assumption, which is all it is, since I already said again that I didn’t know particulars, that it’s a shame it’s occurring more and more in society…......

Is that typed slow enough for you, Mr. srh4869? And while I’m on that subject, let me ask you something…....why do you think he killed his son? You think it was over how much money he owed? Since you seem to know him so well, is that what you think?

Ever hear the term, “No romance without finance”?......if you are correct and he was so far in debt….you don’t think this guy might have been looking at losing his entire life…..marriage, financial, everything?..

And didn’t I already speak on that? That was my whole point. And I did say that I didn’t know particulars!

I did say simply that it’s happening more and more….and basically know matter what spin you put on it, my statement was true. It’s a shame these people are left to feel there is no hope and then they do something senseless like killing their own child, and for what? Desparation? It’s not the answer no matter how you cut it. I do believe that was the point I made, no matter which way you spin it. Bottom line, it’s a shame that in our live’s everything is stacked against you so bad that people are left with no hope.

It truly is a tragedy. And I only hope that his 9yr. old son never felt it, never saw it coming and didn’t have to live the nightmare that must have unfolded in that house. I have a son that age, and I can’t imagine my son having to witness such a tragedy and nightmare.

That’s exactly why I made the statement I made in the first place. As adults we have to face many tribulations and many valleys in life, however it should NEVER come to killing your own kids out of desparation….they are innocent and should be left that way.

This is bad and all but why the f-ing he.l.l. does NBC4 have to have a map on here? So the death sight seers can find it easier?

First off….I clearly said that regardless of the situation, I didn’t condone this guys actions. I have children and could NEVER see myself doing something like that to my child. I’ve been put through the ringer with my children’s mothers and there is NO WAY I would ever even humor the thought of something like that…...it makes no sense.

And as far as my statement about how the courts favor mothers, I was dead on. Point blank. I believe I made my point very clearly. And I believe I said that it’s a shame that the courts make it so people feel they don’t have any hope. And YES COURTS FAVOR WOMEN…..BIG TIME!!!!!!

My son was kidnapped when I had SOLE CUSTODY…..she never saw a minute in front of a judge let alone a minute in jail. The law states that if any person “interferes with custody and visition” more than three times, they go to jail and the jail time goes up accordingly to how many times they violate court orders…....well I can tell you from experience. My oldest son’s mother did it over 100 times in one year…..and never saw the inside of a jail cell. Literally my son came up missing, was placed on a national missing list for children and the courts still weren’t going to do anything…....they wouldn’t go after her. I was told point blank “good luck finding him…....it would be greatly in your favor if you get him back by the time we go to court…..“.........OH YOU THINK!!!!!!...the courts are a joke when it comes to those issues. And I don’t know why anyone would kill their child to try to “avoid” that outcome for instance….....but the courts favoring women and the garbage that the system basically all but enables them to do and practically shows them how to do….is exactly why this kind of nonsense goes on in society.

I’m guess that you, “buckgirl” have never actually dealt with the courts and obviously don’t have much experience in such matters, so yer talking out your tail….you don’t know what you are talking about. And before you try to impress someone with statistics, how about actually knowing your facts…..where did you get them from.

I wasn’t making this a forum about beating up on women….I was saying the courts unfortunately through their actions….or lack thereof, kinda pave the way for senseless violence like this. If people didn’t feel like it was hopeless they wouldn’t be doing this kind of crap. Doesn’t mean I agree or even understand their train of thought, but it does say that clearly people who commit these kinds of senseless acts, are clearly acting like a caged animal, pinned in a corner and coming out swinging for the fences and not looking at who they are taking this out on.

Maybe he was cheating, maybe she was cheating…....maybe they just didn’t get along, but it still doesn’t make sense to kill her or their child, or himself for that matter to resolve it. But I’m betting the guy has seen and heard the way things work when it’s all coming crashing down, and I’d bet money, that’s behind this…...at least partially.

My point in all of this is…...what a shame to cut short your child’s life because you are acting out and not thinking at all.