Senior: Take Prayer Out Of Graduation
No Prayer At Graduation
A senior gives himself a final assignment: take the prayer out of graduation.
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A high-school senior gives himself a final assignment: Take the prayer out of graduation.
Published: May 12, 2009
Updated: May 13, 2009
ROSS COUNTY, Ohio—A local community that’s largely centered around family and religion is riled up over a challenge to a tradition.
A senior at Southeastern High School in Ross County told his school he wants prayer taken out of the school’s upcoming graduation ceremony.
Seventeen-year-old Jacob Davis also wrote a letter to the editor of the local newspaper and has enlisted the help of a lawyer from the group Americans United for the Separation of Church and State.
Seventeen years ago, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled public school prayer violates the Constitution’s First Amendment by coercing students into religious participation.
Jacob, who practices the Wiccan faith, said he’s angry that nearly two decades later, Southeastern’s graduation prayer continues. He proposed replacing it with a moment of silence.
“If you want to thank the god or gods you believe in, they should do that before or after the entire ceremony, not at the school,” Jacob said.
While many in the community said Davis doesn’t have to listen to the graduation prayer, he said he shouldn’t have to hear it.
“It’s pushing Christianity on us, and it’s just uncomfortable for everybody. I don’t think it should be there,“ Jacob said. “I’m not depriving you of your right to worship your God, not at all. I’m just saying you shouldn’t bring any religion into a graduation ceremony.“
The graduation prayer has become a tradition. a tradition that parents, teachers and community members are not ready to part with.
“I think that there should be allowed to be prayer. There always has been,“ Kim Riddle said.
“A moment of silence? People will wander at that point. Their minds will wander. If a prayer is being spoken, that’s where you’ll focus,“ Steve Speakman, an employee at a local Christian bookstore, said.
“And if the school thinks this is best, one person shouldn’t be able to change the minds of everyone,” Speakman said.
“He should just close his eyes and just ... have his own moment of silence and go on with the way that it’s been,” Chillicothe resident Amber Riddle said.
NBC 4 tried several times to contact the school district’s superintendent and the principal at Southeastern High School but were unable to reach either Tuesday night.
The graduation ceremony is one week from Saturday.
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JLS:
Ohio is in the Bible Belt? That’s news to me…*Looks up the Bible Belt map.* Looks like it starts a little further south, actually. I mean, I know we have a large Amish community a little north, in Holmes County, but Ashville, which is about 45 minutes north of Chillicothe, just had their annual Viking Festival, which is very much influenced by…well…the Vikings and Norse tradition. Then, there’s also Pagan Pride up here in Columbus…
No, I’d say Ohio is very much not in the Bible Belt. Largely conservative? Perhaps, but it’s by no means Bible Belt.
I’m “old school,“ as well, but I still believe that a moment of silence is more respectful than an open, school-led prayer in a public school.
As I’ve said before, how would you feel if the school invited in a Muslim leader, or a Wiccan leader to lead a prayer to Allah or the Goddess or any of the other Gods of the other pantheons? I’m very confident that you’d be up in arms about it and would do the same thing, if not worse.
Yay, you and your family served in the military. That’s fantastic. So did my family and a number of my friends. It doesn’t make you any more of a citizen to have served or come from a military family. If it weren’t for us civilians, you wouldn’t have anything to protect. Everyone has a purpose, everyone has a role, everyone is as worthy as the next person of being a citizen of this country. Please stop gloating about your family’s military background.
First, good on Jacob for standing up for his beliefs. Everyone has the right to do so.
Take the below how you will.
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An insight from at a little known but legal document written in the late 1700s explicitly reveals the secular nature of the U.S. goverenment to a foreign nation. Officially called the “Treaty of peace and friendship between the United States of America and the Bey and Subjects of Tripoli, of Barbary,“ most refer to it as simply the Treaty of Tripoli. In Article 11, it states:
“As the Government of the United States of America is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion; as it has in itself no character of enmity against the laws, religion, or tranquillity, of Musselmen; and as the said States never have entered into any war or act of hostility against any Mehomitan nation, it is declared by the parties that no pretext arising from religious opinions shall ever produce an interruption of the harmony existing between the two countries.“
Joel Barlow wrote the original English version of the treaty, including Amendment 11. Barlow forwarded the treaty to U.S. legislators for approval in 1797. Timothy Pickering, the secretary of state, endorsed it and John Adams concurred (now during his presidency), sending the document on to the Senate. The Senate approved the treaty on June 7, 1797, and officially ratified by the Senate with John Adams signature on 10 June, 1797. All during this multi-review process, the wording of Article 11 never raised the slightest concern. The treaty even became public through its publication in The Philadelphia Gazette on 17 June 1797.
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I just found out about all this yesterday so I decided to get on here and check it out. I didnt have an account but after reading all the hateful posts from you “christians” I decided for myself that I was going to register and voice my opinion as well. First off, I have known Jacob since he was a little baby probably, as well as his whole family. I grew up around them. So to JLS, how do you have the right to say “master wiccan and his wiccan family” when you have no clue about anything obviously. Trust me, his family is far from wiccan. This is news to them even. Even though Im sure they dont support all of this, Jacob is STILL their son no matter what. Secondly, he is correct, it is a law that there should be no prayer in schools. Why are you guys bashing someone for trying to uphold our constitution? Taking prayer out of schools is not going to hurt anyone. Like he says, if people want to pray, they can do it anywhere. Why have it in the school? I am a christian myself which is why you will not find me bashing anyone! Let him believe in what he wants people, its not hurting anyone else at all!!!
JLS - If you want prayer in schools so badly, make sure your kids and grandkids go to Christian schools. Christians have their own school systems. These are public schools. They are for ALL. Not just Christians.
Give it a few years. The “bible belt” has been fraying at the seams for the last couple decades. What will you do when Christianity is no longer the majority? More and more families are like mine. More and more non-christians are coming to America. Used to be “no Catholics need apply”.
I’m all for the pledge of allegience AS ORIGINALLY WRITTEN - without “under God” that was added during the McCarthy Red Scare.
You have a rather sad attitude about what respect for your country and patriotism means. There are many ways to serve one’s country - the military is only one. Serving in the military doesn’t make you any more a citizen than the person who volunteers at their local library or school or soup kitchen or election board. Or who doesn’t volunteer for anything at all. The person who goes to work, earns a living, pays taxes, is just as much a citizen as any other person born in this country. Christians have no special rights and priviledges than non-Christians.
Were you one of those people who were upset at the criticisms of the last president? One of those who was upset that many people didn’t “respect the office” because they didn’t agree with what he was doing? Where is your respect for another EQUAL branch of the US government - the judiciary? Just because you don’t like what they decided? It’s still the law. The law of this country. We are not under mob rule, or majority rule. Our laws are set up to give the smallest minority the same rights as the largest majority.
I ask you again - what would you want the schools to do if your area became majority Hindu? Or Muslim? I say these two because where my folks live, the public schools are now at least equally Hindu and non-Hindu, if not majority Hindu. There are schools near other family members that are majority Muslim students. They are areas that nobody would have expected Christians to not be the only religion just a generation ago. It could very well happen where you live. So, if the majority of students were Hindu, would you be willing to stand for a Hindu prayer?
It’s very easy to get all self-righteous when you are in the majority.
Ease up on the Wiccan, people! I am a christian, but all of us are entitled to our opinions and to take away that is to take away the key freedom this country is about.
Having an opinion is fine, but hurling mud is not what these blogs are for. I want to read all your opinions not your insults, on either side.
If you truly think about it, you learn something about people’s attitudes, their sensitivity, their feelings on various issues by religion, race, social class, sex, and every other status you can think of by reading these blogs. I am able to get a perspective on people I never had before.
I have even changed some of my opinions, been persuaded if you will to see other points of view… but seeing insults doesn’t tell me much of anything good about anyone.
I do agree with Annie64 on one thing, the young man does have alot of courage. He did stand up for what he believes in, or what he feels, wants in life, and that is a courage not alot of kids have. I don’t think his wish should be granted, but I think he should be commended for having the courage to stand up and be different based on what he believes.
That is an admirable trait and one that will distinguish him later on if he maintains that distinction. So Jacob, if you are reading this, do not mistake my opinion that your request should not be granted as ridicule of YOU! You have the right to say, request, try to make change in any way you see fit in this country, and don’t lose your individuality! You have the power to do great things.
And I agree that Church and State should be separate, but unfortunately, it is not, and we cannot control everything or win every battle. Control what you can, and choose your battles! If you choose them carefully, you will win most of them, and those you lose, you will learn from and use to win later ones!
Thanks again to all of you!
To da broad. This is in good taste(no pun intended)but your family sounds like a Heinz57 commercial for religions and non-religions, but that’s not the story here. If you saw the news last night the principal said there’s nothing that states the students can’t lead in prayer at graduation, so I hope they put little master wiccan and his wiccan family in their little wiccan place. That area is a Bible Belt area. They may not be monetarily rich but they are rich in their Christain faith and belief’s. I’m old school like a lot of others, I believe in prayer in the school, the pledge of alligence, and a good paddling when needed. You didn’t have the crap you have today in school when I was in school in the 50’s-60’s. My family has also served in the United States military since the Revolutionary War, Civil War, Spanish American War, WWI, WWII, Korea, Vietnam, Desert Storm, Iraqi Freedom/Endurance, and now Afghanistan. 27 were killed in action and another 13 wounded in action including myself saving 2 trapped marines from 7 Vietcong who had them trapped. I have fought in two wars, my father in 2 wars, my sons now in 2 battle fronts but we have all been devoted Christains and devoted to the freedom of this country and what it was founded on. You sound the same age as me and girls were never discouraged from going into the military when we were growing up. They just weren’t allowed to be combat infantry or pilots back then. Mainly administrative, doctors, or nurses. I have a cousin graduating from Southeastern and the vast majority of seniors are really upset at this kid. He said he was always stirring the pot about something when things didn’t go his way at school. I guess the student speakers are going to say prayers since the clergy can’t be there. I know I would lead everyone there in prayer and those that were offended could step out in the hall and come back in after it was over. Everyone says the Supreme Court has made it a law. We haven’t had a trusted or honorable Supreme Court that represents the vast majority of American citizens in decades. So if you are Pagen (Roman, Norse, Gaellic,
Swedish or whatever) and you back the Wiccan family why don’t you start your own school systems and call them Wicgens or Pagcans and you can do your own thing at graduations. These are my beliefs and opinions and you have yours. A retired LtCDR Special Forces Combat Member and proud of it.
Through the course of posting here, I have become more enlightened, and wish to thank all of you for your thoughtful postings on both sides of these issues, (the prayer removal, the boy going to another prom and being suspended from a christian school, etc…) I have come to see certain points of view, especially the one I had not really considered closely, such as the proxied republic concept. Which is very accurate. We do not have a true democracy which would embrace a popular vote on each issue. Which would have its upsides and downsides. It would be tiresome, but the proxied republic we live in trusts that the people in power or making decisions for the people will listen to the people.
In this case, considering all sides and the issues, I still think that the law of separation of church and state applies, but nevertheless, we do not have true separation of church and state, and until we do, it would not be fair for this one child to change the tradition and expectations of every other child in the graduation.
He does not have to bow his head, he does not have to participate in the prayer, and he does not have to say “amen” (so be it) in agreement with the prayer in accord with his free will and free speech. I think that his will should not override that of the hundreds of other graduates.
All of these issues have grey areas, and I don’t agree with anyone that makes them black or white. There are certain laws that ARE black and white, right and wrong, but this is one where there is no extreme answer and this child’s demand is just that, and extreme answer.
It is reminiscent of the removal of the ten commandments from the front of the Alabama State Judicial house monument, and what a ridiculous deal was made of that. Those basic rules are held by nearly all religions as law, and so they certainly were not harming anyone. Those offended were the atheists and non-christians who were offended by the mention that “you must not have any other God’s against my face” as opposed to the real content of the rest of the laws.
This is the same principal. The majority believe in some God and can pray in their own way at this time, the child may be an atheist or a non-Christian and want it removed so it doesn’t offend him. I am sorry, but this world has something to offend everyone, learning to live with that offense is part of growing up and being a part of the world.
I believe in change, but I don’t believe in FORCING change for my own convenience or comfort.
Thank you all though for helping me see many different sides.
In reply to an earlier poster, who seemed to think I couldn’t spell and he has more right to citizenship than I or anyone else:
My father served in WWII, Navy, both in the Pacific and Atlantic fleets, and was present for the surrender of Japan. My brothers served during Viet Nam - one was a Green Beret, one was in SAC. My nephew is currently in the Navy. When I was growing up, girls were discouraged from joining the military. My father was a nominal Catholic - he attended when he had to.
I graduated high school. I have attended both trade school and college. I have a husband and a teen aged son.
My screen name is NOT “the board” (I have no idea where you pulled that out of). It is DaBroad. An older gentleman once referred to me as a “right stand-up broad”, and from him it was a complement.
I am a pagan. I follow the path of my paternal ancestors in far northern Europe. My son follows the path of his paternal ancestors, the Norse gods. My husband is a deist. My Mother is Byzantine Catholic. One brother is Roman Catholic. The other is Buddhist.
“Dear Anne 369,
I guess Wiccans are not only good at butcher animals; Wiccans are proficient at butchering large cap letters too. Besides, what are you going to do? Put a curse on me?
Warm regards”
What a wonderful example of ignorance and bigotry. You surely must be viewed as a marvelous credit to your faith.
Pagans are good at a multitude of things. Sarcasm is just one more service we offer. Besides, your grammer sucks.
With LITTLE regard.
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